Facebook dumbing friendship down. True or false?
Both.
It’s true because most of your contacts on facebook arn’t your real close friends you talk to everyday.
It’s false because you don’t use facebook to keep contact with old friends. Think of it, how often do you really talk to that classmate from first grade..? Facebook is used to create new relationships and contacs, for the simple purpose of benefiting.
Let me explain.
The author says that there is a need to introduce a real friend as a “close friend”, because of all the “friends” at social networks such as facebook. He makes a good point but i’d rather introduce that close friend as a “friend from …”
My opinion is that facebook has nothing to do with real friendsship. Some might think it does, but I don’t. For example:
Say you have a close friend that you talk to almost every day. Then, for some reason you stop talking, maybe because one of you moves or something. The only time you actually writes to that friend on facebook is when you 1. wanna prove to your new friends that you have other friends and 2. if you for some reasons can’t communicate through another medium.
As I mentioned earlier, Facebook is about making contacs that you can draw a benefit from. Like the article from PR Australia (Digital PR strategies: Using social media to influence online brand visibility and reputation) said:
“It’s not just your website that is a source for search engines such as Google to examine and publish. It’s every piece of communication – formal and informal – which uses the web. This also includes the personal profiles of your staff, their facebook pages, their LinkedIn profiles etc”
So if a staffmember post something on her facebook wall, all her friends can see it, which gives the company PR.
So thanks to facebook dumbing friendsships, companies can actually take advantages of this. And not just companies, even just regular people maybe trying to start a business, or just having an garage sale. Everyone can benefit from having more contacts on facebook.
And those who are truly your friends don’t need facebook to communicate with you. So it’s easier to think of facebook as an great invention which allows you to be “friends” with people you barely know, but later in life can use for different purposes.
But doctors and patiens becoming friends on facebook just seems wrong..













